I have a tractor trailer full of issues and per Dr Francomano my skin is not very stretchy at all. I have had college coaches, doctors, massage therapists, and PT’s tell me though that I have somany knots and so much tension in my muscles, especially neck and back, it’d be easier to massage a door than mt back. My PCP has commented that she can see the muscle tightness in my neck from across the room. I have lived like this for as long as I can remember. I assume there was a time I didn’t live with muscle tightness but I don’t remember it. EDS presents differently in all of us, even in the same family.
I have found the most relief from my current PT who uses cranial sacral massage techniques. I would encourage you to try to find a PT, osteopath, or massage therapist who uses the same who can evaluate your daughter’s body mechanics. The tiniest things can make a huge difference.
I would also encourage you to listen to your gut. Mom’s are usually right.