Thank you Diana and all those that have posted here thus far. I know it may be a little selfish of me, but I can’t help but feeling there are other partners on here as well as myself that could use a bit of encouragement. I ask all of you, even those that have not posted yet please please share your side of this. You may not even be in a relatinship or have ended one because of this. I ask all of you please do this for those of us that are partners, we need and want help and encourement too !! For those of you that have already posted you have my heartfelt thanks, if you can think of ANYTHING that might be of help please post it? Thanks to all, in advance.